Resource Quick List

Books about Understanding Pornography and Sexual Addiction (LDS Perspective)

He Restoreth My Soul: Understanding and
Breaking the Chemical and Spiritual Chains of
Pornography Addiction Through the Atonement
of Jesus Christ (2010), Donald L. Hilton, Jr.,
M.D.; Forward Press.

Confronting Pornography: A Guide to Prevention
and Recovery for Individuals, Loved Ones, and
Leaders (2005), Mark Chamberlain, Dan Gray, & Rory Reid (Editors); Deseret Book.

Armed with Righteousness (previously: Putting on the Armor of God: How to Win Your Battles with Satan,1992) Steven A. Cramer

The Bonds that Make Us Free: Healing Our Relationships, Coming to Ourselves (2001), Warner, C. Terry

Dads That Stay and Fight, Greg Trimble

Heal My Broken Heart – An LDS Guide to Dealing with Those Bound By the Deadly Sin of Pornography (2004) Ruth Davidson & Tamara Davies

Understanding Pornography and Sexual Addiction: A Resource for LDS Parents and Leaders (2013) SA  Lifeline Foundation and Bryan Crocket  Free download: http://salifeline.org/bookstore-item/understanding-pornography

I’m Not Okay; You’re Not Okay, And That’s Okay: A book on healthy and healing Relationships (2014), Maurice W. Harker https://www.dropbox.com/s/bd2qegg3bxzi4r2/Marriage%2B20140904MWH.pdf?dl=0

Sitting In A Rowboat, Throwing Marbles at a Battleship, A.P.  Free download: http://rowboatandmarbles.org/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/Sitting-in-a-Rowboat-eBook-9-15-11-2nd-revised.pdf


Books about Understanding Pornography and Sexual Addiction (General Perspective)

What’s the Big Deal about Pornography? A
Guide for the Internet Generation (2008), Jill
C. Manning; Shadow Mountain Press (General
Audience/Parents and Youth).

Worthy Of Her Trust: What You Need to do to Rebuild Sexual Integrity and Win Her Back, Stephen Arterburn & Jason B. Martinkus 

Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sexual
Addiction (2001), Patrick Carnes; Hazelden.

Outwitting The Devil, Napoleon Hill

Books written to the Afflicted Spouse or Loved One of a Pornography and Sexual Addict (LDS Perspective)

What Can I Do About Him Me? (2012) Rhyll Anne Croshaw

Out of the Ashes, An LDS Guide to Helping a Betrayed Spouse Heal in the Aftermath of Sexual Sin (2007) Ruth Davidson

I, The Lord Have Seen Thy Sorrow Ruth Davidson

Lord, I Believe; Help Thou Mine Unbelief: A
Workbook Approach (2005), Rod W. Jeppsen.

Love You, Hate the Porn: Healing a
Relationship Damaged by Virtual Infidelity
(2011), Mark Chamberlain, PhD & Geoff
Steurer, MS, LMFT.

From Heartache to Healing: Finding Power
In Christ to Deal With A Loved One’s Sexual
Addiction (2010), Colleen C. & Philip A.
Harrison, Windhaven Publishing.



Books on Understanding Shame & Vulnerability

Gifts of Imperfection, Daring Greatly, Rising Strong, Brene Brown


Books written to the Afflicted Spouse or Loved One of a Pornography and Sexual Addict (General Perspective)
Boundaries, Cloud and Townsend

Boundaries in Marriage, Cloud and Townsend

Facing Co-Dependency, Pia Mellody


Facing Heartbreak, Stefanie Carnes

Mending a Shattered Heart, A Guide for Partners of Sex Addicts, Stefanie Carnes

Moving Beyond Betrayal - The 5 Step Boundary Solution for Partners of Sex Addicts, Vicki Tidwell Palmer.

Rescued, A woman's guide to surviving and thriving after sexual betrayal, Shelley Martinkus

Your Sexually Addicted Spouse: How Partners
Can Cope and Heal (2009), Barbara Steffens &
Marsha Means; New Horizon.

  
Books Relating to 12-Step Programs for the Sexually Addicted

Sexaholics Anonymous White Book (1989), SA
Literature. (For Pornography & Sexual Addicts) www.sa.org

Addiction Recovery Program: A Guide to
Addiction Recovery and Healing, LDS Family

He Did Deliver Me from Bondage (2002),
Colleen G. Harrison; Windhaven Publishing
and Productions. (LDS).

A Gentle Path Through the 12-Steps, The
Classic Guide for All People In the Process
of Recovery (1993), Patrick Carnes, Ph.D.
Hazelden.

Books Relating to 12-Step Programs for an Afflicted Spouse or Loved One

S-Anon 12-Steps, S-Anon Literature [for the
loved ones of sexual addicts] www.sa.org

He Did Deliver Me from Bondage (2002),
Colleen G. Harrison; Windhaven Publishing
and Productions (LDS perspective).


Teaching Children about Healthy Sexuality:

Good Pictures, Bad Pictures Kristen Jenson
Good Pictures, Bad Pictures Jr. Kristen Jenson

30 Days of Sex Talks Educate, Empower Kids

A Parent’s Guide, see www.lds.org
Family Home Evening Resource Manual
(1983), (p 253–60).

Let Virtue Garnish Thy Thoughts, LDS Church
Distribution.

How to Talk to Your Child about Sex (1999),
Linda and Richard Eyre; St. Mark’s Press.

Growing Up: Gospel Answers about Maturation
and Sex (2000), Brad Wilcox; Deseret Book
Company.

Where Did I Come From? (2000), Peter Mayle;
Kensington Publishing Corp.

SA Lifeline Materials Available Online

Recovery and Healing from the Effects of
Pornography and Sexual Addiction (Pamphlet)

Dating and Pornography (Pamphlet)

The Family Fight Against Pornography
(Pamphlet)

Young Single Adult Pledge (produced by Deseret
Media)
Family Pledge (produced by Deseret Media)

Contrasting Healthy Sexuality and
Pornographic Portrayals of Sexuality (Chart
by Jill C. Manning, PhD)

Comparing Healthy and Toxic Relationships
(Chart by Jill C. Manning, PhD)

Am I Serious About Dealing with My
Pornography Problem? Am I Making Effective Changes to Deal with My Spouse’s Pornography Problem?


Helpful Internet Sites
https://addictionrecovery.lds.org
www.adammmoore.com
www.YourBrainOnPorn.com


Internet Filters



DVDs / Videos

Listening To Shame, Shame Is Lethal, The Anatomy of Trust, The Power of Vulnerability – Brene Brown

The Great Porn Experiment – Gary Wilson

Why I Stopped Watching Porn – Ran Gavrieli

4 hour recording: Breaking the Chains Seminar by Life Changing Services (2014), Maurice Harker http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLNo0m7kbXMCgKtqNOyEwHGiOJj_vKao3I

The Heart of the Matter: Finding Light In The Darkness of Phonography Addiction by SA Lifeline Foundation, (75 minutes) (www.salifeline.org)

Avoiding/Overcoming Pornography, Real
Families Real Answers. (www.byutv.org/
watch/13 77-113 )

Pornography and the Brain, Dr. Donald L.
Hilton Jr., MD. (www.salifeline.org)

Preparing for Healthy Intimacy: A Message for
Singles, Jill C. Manning, PhD and Dan Gray.

Pornography the Great Lie: A Guide for
Families of All Faiths. Deseret Book

Healing Relationships Damaged by
Pornography, Geoff Steurer. (www.salifeline.
org)

Helping Her Heal (2014), Douglas Weiss http://drdougweiss.com/store/

Safeguarding Teens and Young Adults from
Pornography. Jason Carroll, PhD. (www.
salifeline.org)


Audio CDs
Strengthening Recovery through Strengthening
Marriage, 6-part Audio Program, Geoff
Steurer and Kevin Skinner. For couples dealing
with pornography addiction. (order at www.
salifeline.org)

Let’s Talk about the Elephant in the Room,
(2010) Jill C. Manning, PhD, CD

Locating an LDS Based Therapist
·        SA Lifeline Foundation www.salifeline.org.
·        LifeSTAR Network www.lifestarnetwork.org
·        LDS Hope and Recovery www.ldshopeandrecovery.com
·        LDS Family Services www.providentliving.org
      Addo Recovery http://addorecovery.com/
·        Jennifer Finlayson Fife http://www.finlayson-fife.com/
·        Utah Valley Counseling http://utahvalleycounseling.com/
·        Enough is Enough,  http://enough.org/manning-jill
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12-Step Programs, Recovery Programs, Support Groups &  Finding Meetings
Human Intimacy - Healing tools and resources for all relationships www.humanintimacy.com
·        LDS 12-Step Addiction Recovery Meetings http://addictionrecovery.lds.org/?lang=eng
·        Sexaholics Anonymous 12 Step Meetings in Utah: www.salifeline.org
·        Sexaholics Anonymous 12 Step Meetings outside Utah: www.sa.org/top
·        S-Anon 12 Step Meetings in Utah visit www.salifeline.org
·        S-Anon 12 Step Meetings outside Utah visit www.sanon.org
·        Healing Through Christ – Free, 12 Step, Online Women’s Support Groups http://www.healingthroughchrist.org/
       Bloom For Women https://bloomforwomen.com/